Monthly Archives: December 2011

The Art of Flight.

{glitter and pine: the perfect accent on a mantlepiece}

Today is just one of those fist pumping kind of days, ya know? It’s not totally unwarranted, although my downloading of the new Hellogoodbye album has definitely helped to pep me up, even on the 7am commute to work. Although I can’t divulge all of what’s making me so jazzed right yet (I promise I will when everything has been firmed up and made official), I can tell you that I’m really excited to be heading back home to Ontario on Thursday.

Since it’s the holiday season, many of us are making the trek back to our homelands this week. For some, like me, that means flying. Honestly, I don’t really like flying, but I won’t elaborate on that here in case you do and don’t want me to ruin it for you. I’ll just say that I can handle it because I’m an engineer, and I know the physics behind it–rest assured, there are some serious forces at work to keep you up in the air. And if you were paying attention, yes that was a supremely nerdy pun right there.

Anyway, as a veteran flier (of the commercial aircraft passenger type), I will share with you my secrets of flight success. Because my usual flight isn’t long enough to warrant knocking myself out with sleeping pills, and isn’t short enough to just watch a movie and be done with it, I’ve got a few little secrets to keep myself happy, healthy, and feeling good upon arrival.

  1. You thought I was going to say coffee, didn’t you? No way. Flying dehydrates me like crazy, and to help remedy that I generally have a pre-board tea. Lately I’m loving DavidsTea’s Forever Nuts. It tastes and smells like candy, ’nuff said.
  2. Obviously a good book is in order for longer flights. On my to-read list (which you can see here) is The Help by Kathryn Stockett. And since I never see a movie before I read the book, watching the movie is definitely not an option for my in-flight entertainment!
  3. Again, say it with me: hydration. As much as I hate airplane washrooms and try to avoid using them, I force myself to drink at least a litre of water on the flight, because I know it’ll do me (and my skin) so much good later. And if I have to use those weird vacuum toilets, so be it…
  4. The markup on airplane food is unbelievable these days. $7 for cheese and crackers? I could buy the cow and it’d be cheaper. But since I lack the facilities to farm dairy, I always make sure to pack high-protein snacks that will keep me full in between those gourmet (not) airplane meals.
  5. Sometimes my eyes get tired of reading, and the onboard movies call my name. Sometimes I just want to plug in my ipod to zone out and get some beauty sleep. Either way, headphones are a must. And these ones smell like gummy bears. Mmmm…
  6. Depending on the time of day that I’m flying, it might be the only nighttime I get (ugh, red eye flights). I’m easily distracted and find it difficult to sleep on planes, but my sleeping mask helps in these situations. I generally stick with a plain black one though so that I avoid looking like Snooki and garnering funny looks from toilet-goers in the aisles. Unless I’m flying to Jersey.
  7. Although I have relatively normal skin, I get so dried out from airplane cabin air. Whether it’s the altitude, air quality, or whatever, I always find myself feeling pretty dry and flaky. This L’Oreal moisturizer is my favourite, and I always bring it in my carry-on for emergency use.
  8. Flying is always a crapshoot for germs–they’re inevitable. I do my best to touch only what I need to in terms of public items, and wash my hands whenever possible. When I’m not close to a washroom, I looove these hand sanitizers from Bath & Body Works. Currently I’ve stashed winter candy apple in my purse.

Despite my having a list of necessities, it’s inevitable that a few tag-alongs find their way into my bags. Flip-flops? Hey, I could need them. Four hardcover books? I might be really into reading all of a sudden. A jar of peanut butter? My parents might run out! Come on, there’s nothing wrong with preparedness.

Happy flying!

Now We’re Talking.

{success and power}

Good news, girlfriends: we’re doing a darn good job of rocking the boat up in here. Women for the win!

If you’ve read this, you’ll probably (or hopefully) have taken from it that although I have some fun and silly little hobbies (and a ridiculously massive collection of nail polish), I am extremely dedicated to my professional success. I just like to have well manicured nails in the meantime. But as a girl in the world of engineering, it’s really encouraging to hear about women closing the gender gap in the workplace, specifically the gender gap that exists in male-dominated fields.

{polished and put together}

Recently, The New York Times published this article detailing a new phenomenon called the reverse gender gap. Essentially, the “empowered woman” movement that was meant to inspire us to be equally as successful as men has caused us ladies to not only close the pay gap that divides the genders, but reverse it by making more than our male counterparts. This is good news, considering the fact that we’ve been falling behind for decades. But there’s also some alarming news.

The NYT explains how some women feel like their success in the boardroom translates to failure in their personal lives. Some women are even lying about their insanely awesome professions to dumb themselves down and be liked by men. WHAT!? I’m not here to tell anybody what to do, but isn’t the point of being successful and powerful to be proud of what you do, and confident in yourself? This just seems so completely backwards.

Please, people, please don’t let this be you. We need successful ladies, just like we need successful men. The point of equality in the workplace isn’t to laugh at the men below us and say “now who’s the breadwinner, homeboy!”. Noooo. It’s to address the fact that everyone has their niche, and sometimes a woman’s niche earns higher pay than a man’s. Sometimes it does not.

Regardless of the fact that we’re supposed to be doing what we love (we are, aren’t we?), we’re supposed to be appreciative of those around us who are doing the same. Girlfriend, if a man can’t respect you because you’ve got a bigger pay check than he does, he doesn’t deserve to ride shotgun in your Beemer. Can I get an amen?

{amen}

It’s absolutely shocking to me that women feel this way, but then again, I’ve never been an unhappily-single 45-year-old professional. I’ll admit, it could be pretty hard. But let’s just make ourselves a promise that we aren’t going to feel bad about doing what we want with our careers, okay? Success in one arena does not come at the sacrifice of success elsewhere, I swear. And I’ll prove it… but I’m only 24, so it might take me a while!

In the meantime though, think about the great and fun things we can do with our lives as we grow and learn and succeed. If you, like me, are annoyed by all of this “glass ceiling” baloney, and aren’t afraid of the nay-sayers out there, then you can help me break the ceiling too. And I will break it, I promise you that. Because not only do I love a good challenge, I love the outdoors. And a patio is far better than a greenhouse, even in December.

images via 1, 2, 3, 4

Bits ‘n Pieces

{Christmastime at the Olympic Cauldron}

{public skating at robson square}

Despite the occasional rain this weekend, which is actually a blessing for Vancouver in December, I managed to spend my very first weekend in the city this close to the holidays. In years past, I’ve either been on campus studying my brains out for finals, or I’d have already hopped a plane back to Toronto. This 7th year on the west coast marks the first one as a working girl, and that means no 3 weeks off for Christmas vacation. Gosh, I’m growing up so fast!

{home baked cookies}

{my best attempt at decorating}

We didn’t make it to many of the places or activities that I’d planned, like the Vancouver Christmas Market or going skating at Robson Square (we actually did go to Robson Square, but didn’t skate. Does that count?). But since most of my home traditions involve being inside (a necessity, being that I’m from a climate much colder than Vancity’s), it was nice instead to get outside as much as possible to enjoy the nice weather, street decorations, and to window shop! And so, this is a collection of bit ‘n pieces from my weekend. Happy week-before-Christmas!

{amazing little candy apples from rocky mtn chocolate factory}

{tree decorations on Robson Street}